Client Etiquette: How to Be a Respectful Escort Guest
Walking into an escort meeting can feel a bit like a first date, but with extra rules. Knowing the basics of client etiquette saves everyone time, avoids awkward moments, and makes the experience pleasant. Below you’ll find the most useful habits that keep things smooth, from the first message to the final goodbye.
Start With Clear Communication
Before you even think about meeting, send a concise, polite inquiry. State where you’re staying, what kind of evening you have in mind, and ask about the companion’s rates and limits. Avoid vague phrases like “I want a good time” – ask specific questions about boundaries, dress code, and any extra services. A short, respectful message shows you value their time and reduces the chance of misunderstandings.
If the escort replies with a set of rules, read them carefully and confirm you understand. A quick “Got it, I’m comfortable with that” goes a long way. Remember that consent is a two‑way street; you’re not just waiting for a yes, you’re also making sure you’re comfortable with the answer.
Pay and Privacy the Right Way
Most escorts prefer discrete payment methods – cash, prepaid cards, or secure online platforms. Never try to haggle after a session is booked; the price you agreed on is the price they will charge. If you need to split a cost for a dinner or a taxi, discuss it up front. Hidden fees or surprise charges feel like a breach of trust.
Privacy matters. Keep your phone on silent, turn off location sharing, and avoid taking photos unless you have explicit permission. Even if you think a photo is harmless, it can become a privacy risk for the companion. Respecting privacy is the biggest sign of good etiquette.
When the night ends, thank the escort for their time. A simple “Thank you, I had a great evening” is enough. If you enjoyed the experience, a discreet tip or a positive review (if they request it) is appreciated, but never feel forced to leave a review if you’re uncomfortable.
By following these steps – clear communication, honest payment, and solid privacy habits – you’ll create a safe and enjoyable environment for both you and the escort. Good client etiquette isn’t just polite; it’s the foundation of a memorable, respectful encounter.

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